Why We Quit

Why We Quit

Introduction:-

Jan 5th 10:00 pm.

Explain the Target:- 66 days of Consecutive Routine, Waking up early in the Morning, Gym, Leave for office.

Showcase some Milestones:- 66 Days of waking up early, slept less than 6 hours every single day,

Took early Morning shower, sauna, Reach office every single day 30 mins before time

For the First time in His Entire Life He was to achieve a Goal for Himself that he was proud of, A man who never had any goal in his life, and always believed that life is about to Go with the Flow and lived a regular life with that Mindset and was satisfied too.

He did not quit, I asked him How did all Happened, What’s the Secret of not Quitting and below is an answer.

Akbar Explained, We quit because of 3 main Reasons,

1 ) We do not believe ourselves – Low Self Confidence, Low Self Esteem

2 ) We do not Focus our Goals – We are Highly distracted

3) We do not Give it all what we have – Less Hard work

If you have these Three things in yourself, You will not Quit.

1) We do not believe ourselves – Akbar said, He never believed him that he is capable to do things that he thought he could do, He was lazy, living day to day and with less to no responsibility. that’s why he did not have any Self-confidence, he had good values, positive mindset and high moral character and because of this, he had good social life and strong family life but he was still an average achiever. So I asked him how to believe yourself, HE replied , in order to believe yourself, one has to know yourself first , I asked him, how do you know yourself , HE said we know our self by giving enough time to our personality, you live with you and write down all the things and then practice them again and again to a level where you say in a Mirror that now I know who I am and What I can do.

2) Focus – He said “ Focus “ alone is the most powerful personality trait one can develop. when it comes to achieving what you set for yourself, It is impossible to achieve your goal without a Focus , I asked Akbar What is a Focus , He said Focus means , you are ready to sacrifice your most dear thing for the sake of achieving your goal , I asked him what did you sacrifice , HE said , I did not have any fun in 66 days but only Pain in my chest that I have to do this , No matter what , Even If I lose my Job, I have to Finish it. , Freedom from any kind of distraction, Social gatherings, outings, Partying, Shopping, Movies, Cinema, and every possible thing. This is called Iron Focus.

3) We do not give it ALL that we have, in other words, Hard work, A pure hard work which can break you apart from your soul, He said even if you have 2 Qualities but not hard work, you will not get there, Hard work alone will either make it or break it.

I ask him, How can one be a hard worker if he has never been a hard worker, HE said there is no easy way. You have to complete your Journey. You have to embrace the pain, A Pain which will eventually be converted into the Joy and That Joy can never be Bought. It can never be achieved in comfort. It can never be embraced by the week ones.

So, in the end, I asked him that how do you feel yourself after this Journey, and HE said I had never found myself that happy Ever as I am, He said My pain is converted in the Joy and I will never go back to my old Life.

So to conclude this, I know this Guy from last 28 years or so, and I have never seen him like this. So Confident, So Humble and Full of Love. I hope him best of luck and would wish ourselves to cultivate these traits into our personality, So We become whatever you want to.